How do I show my kitty some love?

you should show her lots of affection all the time (everyday, more often) and im pretty sure that she'll get to like you and come to you more often for attention. and when she pees on you clothes or places that she shoudnt you should spray her with a water bottle and i think she'll get the hint. and eventually stop doing it, my cat use to do the same thing (peeing though) and i just take a water bottle and spray him and then he just stopped doing it.